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Bethanie Gris: What Christmas means to me

For Dr. Bethanie Gris, dentistry is more than a career—it’s a unique blend of art and science that allows her to create, connect, and care for others. As a new graduate navigating the early stages of her career, Bethanie reflects on how her faith shapes her daily work, offers her strength in challenging times, and brings meaning to her life, especially during Christmas.

Discovering Christianity at University

Raised in the Netherlands and North Wales, Bethanie grew up in Christian traditions influenced by her Egyptian heritage. However, it wasn’t until she moved to Manchester to study dentistry that she began to turn back to faith and actively explore the claims of Christianity.

“Dental school was a huge education—not just academically, but personally,” she shares. “I arrived at university with an agnostic-atheistic outlook, and settling in a diverse and vast city introduced me to new schools of thought and cultures. My beliefs were challenged in a healthy and thought-provoking way—I became curious to explore Christianity more deeply, beyond the familial doctrines I was raised with.”

Bethanie naturally gravitated to people of different faiths, including Christians and Muslims. She formed deep friendships. “We facilitated open debates and conversations around faith, which helped me understand others’ viewpoints, assess my belief system, and seek the truth.”

The COVID-19 pandemic was a turning point.

“The pandemic instilled profound fear in me, as it did many others. It gave me a sense of urgency to know if God is real and live out this declaration. I became convinced through online Christian Union meetings, attending church, and deep reflection. Committing to Jesus, God incarnate, and experiencing His grace and mercy has uplifted and changed me. I’m grateful for the challenge Covid presented.”

From a dental student to a new Dentist

Transitioning from dental school to professional practice has been daunting for Bethanie, who describes it as lonelier than student life and certainly bearing more responsibility.

“Knowing that God is with me every moment and that everything is ultimately in His hands helps stave off feelings of isolation and anxiety,” she says.

Her faith also shapes how she approaches patient care.

“One of my core beliefs is that each person is made in God’s image and therefore intrinsically valuable. Jesus likens serving others to serving Him directly, which gives my work a special meaning. It’s a privilege to care for people.”

Creating space for faith in the workplace

Bethanie acknowledges that discussing faith in professional settings can be challenging. “At work, I sometimes feel filtered. Bringing up faith with colleagues or patients isn’t encouraged, which can make it difficult at times to connect authentically. In contrast, the Christian Dental Fellowship (CDF) offers a safe space where faith and dentistry align, and I can speak openly with others who prayerfully encourage and support me.”

Reflecting on how workplaces and universities can foster inclusivity for people of faith, Bethanie highlights the importance of open dialogue.

“University, though originally an institution that facilitates research and intellectual contemplation, has become quite like an echo chamber; discussion and acceptance of a variety of beliefs and values is, unfortunately, scarce. A culture of ongoing dialogue and acknowledging that challenge is imperative in the pursuit of truth is important. Creating spaces where people feel safe to talk about faith, ask questions, and share perspectives without fear of judgement or being politically incorrect would go a long way in fostering inclusivity.”

She also notes a common misconception about Christianity.

“Some people think Christians believe they’re better than others, but that couldn’t be further from the truth – and dare I say antithetical. Christianity is rooted in the idea that we all need God’s grace and mercy daily, and we are all equal in need of salvation.”

The meaning of Christmas

For Bethanie, Christmas is a time of profound reflection and joy. She observes both the Gregorian calendar date on 25th December, with its focus on gifts, and the Julian calendar date on 7th January, which holds deeper spiritual significance.

“Christmas is all about redemption and new beginnings. Christ’s birth 2,000 years ago is a spring of hope in a world filled with atrocity, war, and conflict—especially so close to my parental home in Egypt.”

Her faith provides a foundation of hope rooted in historical truth. “I eagerly await the new creation that Jesus spoke about—a renewed heaven and earth with no more suffering and where perfect justice becomes reality. Christmas reminds me of that promise and renews my spirit.”

Balancing work and faith

Bethanie is grateful for the time off her practice has granted her over Christmas this year.

“Starting as a Foundation Dentist has been difficult but rewarding. I’ve had to rest instead of socialising as I’m slowly building stamina to have a good work-life balance eventually—but seeing patients’ appreciation and the growth and learning I’ve tackled is fulfilling. All in all, having this time to spend with my family and slow down will be delightful.”

Looking ahead, she plans to carefully balance her work schedule with her faith commitments. “I’ll need to plan holidays around special occasions to allow myself the space to celebrate, reflect, and recharge.”

Faith in action

For Bethanie, faith is not a separate part of her life—it’s woven into every interaction, challenge, and triumph.
From her time as a curious student to her early days as a practising dentist, she exemplifies how faith can provide strength, purpose, and hope in all aspects of life.

“Christmas and Christianity remind us that restoration and reconciliation is always possible with the Creator God, who loves humankind so much that He stepped into this broken world to save us. It’s an honour and blessing to live out this truth every day.”

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  • Trustee since 2010
  • Dental speciality – Retired consultant Orthodontist
  • County – Southern Counties
  • I am a Past President of the BDA Southern Counties Branch with extensive experience in committee, management, teaching, and training.

Dr Peter Crooks

Trustee

  • Trustee since 2020
  • Dental Speciality – General Dental Practitioner
  • County – Antrim, Northern Ireland
  • I am the representative of the Principal Executive Committee of the BDA on the BDA Benevolent Fund Board. I hope to continue and foster the close working relationship between the Charity and the BDA, of whose members are also members of the charity. I’m also a Director and Secretary of a charitable company – CHEERS Youth Centre

Dr Molly Deykin

Trustee

  • Trustee since 2020
  • Dental speciality – General Dental Practitioner
  • County – London
  • I have been involved in student support groups and I was elected British Dental Student Association President. I worked with the Sands Cox Charity when I was the Dental School Society Vice-President. After graduating I was the Foundation Dentist Representative on the BDA Young Dentists Committee.

Dr Allan Franklin

Trustee

  • Trustee since 2003
  • Dental speciality – General Dental Practitioner for 35 years
  • County – Oldham/ Rochdale
  • I am the Chairman of BDA Oldham & Rochdale Section (and previous Secretary). Chairman for the E.Lancs & E Cheshire Branch of BDA in charge of section regeneration. Previous Chairman of British Society for Dental Hypnosis (as it was then) and involved in Local Dental Committees.

Dr Alex Gormley

Trustee

  • Trustee since 2020
  • Dental Speciality – Academic Clinical Fellow at the University of Bristol
  • County – Bristol
  • I have worked in primary dental care and a maxillofacial unit since graduation. I am continuing my dental core training alongside academic training at the University of Bristol. I also serve as the Early Career Representative as an invited board member at the FDS at the Royal College of Surgeons of England.

Dr Chris Hayward

Treasurer

  • Trustee since 2013
  • Dental speciality – Associate Specialist in Oral & Maxillofacial Surgery, Lead Clinician Dental Emergency Department Newcastle Dental Hospital, Honorary  Clinical Lecturer Newcastle Dental School
  • County – Newcastle/ Northern Counties
  • I have been active in the BDA at Section, Branch, and National Levels. I was a member of the Rep Board/Body; a former member of the BDA PEC; a Director of International Affairs; and the previous BDA Board.

Dr Philip Henderson

Trustee

  • Trustee since 2006
  • Dental Speciality-Principal Practice Owner and in General Dental Service for 37 years.
  • County – Antrim, Northern Ireland
  • I have been a Church Elder for 34 years with pastoral care responsibility Local Dental Adviser for Dental Protection including attending GDC Hearings and Probity work in NHS Current member “Probing Dental Stress” group in N.I.
  • Past: LDC Chair, N.I.DPC Chair, Northern Ireland Branch BDA President, Director of the BDA’s PEC for two terms

Dr Ros Keeton

Chairman

  • Trustee since 2008
  • Dental Specialty – Leadership and management of Dental Services
  • County – Shropshire
  • I am an experienced NHS Chief Executive and health care leader who combines a dental background with substantial leadership experience. I am also a Chairman of a specialist hospice and EOL charity Compton Care. I am a passionate and committed advocate for dentists in distress.

Dr Stuart Robson

Trustee

  • Trustee since 2006
  • Dental speciality – A General Dental Practitioner
  • County– North Yorkshire
  • Former President of BDA 1999- 2000, previous Vice-Chairman of BDA Council and also Dental Services Committee. On behalf of North Yorkshire LDC, was organiser and lead of the North Yorkshire PASS (Practitioner Advice and Support Scheme) preventing some dentist with problems having dire financial and professional difficulties.

Dr Bill Creedon

Trustee

  • Trustee since 2014
  • Dental speciality – GDP
  • County – Hampshire
  • I have been in general practice for over 20 years as a practice owner in Southampton. The last four years I have been also working at Kings College, London. I am Chair of the BDA’s Wessex branch and Vice Chairman of the Hampshire and Isle of Wight LDC.

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